Separation & Co-Parenting
Divorce & Separation Coaching
When a relationship is ending, everyday decisions can feel tangled. Separation coaching offers practical, goal-focused support with communication, boundaries, co-parenting and preparing for mediation, so you can take the next step with a clearer plan.
In person in Burlington for clients from Oakville, Milton, Mississauga and Hamilton, and online across Ontario.
What is separation coaching?
Separation coaching is practical support for the decisions and conversations that come with a separation or divorce. Sessions focus on the here and now: what needs to happen next, how to communicate with the other parent, and how to keep your children out of the middle.
Coaching is not legal advice and it does not replace a lawyer or mediator. It can help you arrive at those meetings calmer, better prepared and clearer about what matters to you. When stress, grief or anxiety are part of the picture, your sessions can also make room for that.

What coaching can help with
Planning how and what to tell your children about the separation
Communicating with the other parent in a calmer, more focused way
Setting boundaries and keeping adult conflict away from the children
Thinking through parenting schedules, handovers and holidays
Preparing for mediation or meetings with your lawyer
Finding your footing in a new routine as a single-household parent
You can begin on your own. The other parent does not need to take part.
What coaching is not
Coaching does not provide legal advice, make decisions about parenting time or decision-making responsibility, or assess either parent for the court. It is also not a substitute for therapy when you are dealing with significant anxiety, depression, trauma or a crisis.
If there is abuse, threats or fear in the relationship, safety comes first. We will talk with you about what kind of support is appropriate and help you find other services if needed.
What the process usually looks like
Coaching is shaped around your goals. Most people follow these steps:
- Free consultationA 15-minute call to talk about where things stand and whether coaching is a fit.
- Setting goalsNaming the decisions, conversations or situations you most want help with.
- Practical planningWorking through scripts, schedules, boundaries and next steps you can use right away.
- Practice and preparationRehearsing difficult conversations and preparing for mediation or legal meetings.
- Review and adjustChecking what is working and adjusting the plan as your situation changes.
Sessions
Sessions are 50 minutes, in person at our Burlington office or online by secure video or phone anywhere in Ontario. Extended sessions are available upon request.
Insurance coverage
Coaching services may not be covered by insurance. Call us at (647) 327-6017 for a free 15-minute consultation to find out more about your options before you book.
Frequently asked questions
Is coaching the same as therapy?
No. Coaching is practical and goal-focused: communication, planning and next steps. Therapy makes room for grief, anxiety, trauma and other mental health concerns. Depending on what you need, your sessions can include both, and we will talk about which fits best during your free consultation.
Is coaching covered by insurance?
Coaching services may not be covered by insurance. Call us for a free 15-minute consultation to find out more about your options before you book.
Can you give me legal advice?
No. Coaching does not replace advice from a family lawyer, and we do not make decisions about parenting arrangements. Coaching can help you prepare questions for your lawyer or mediator and stay focused during those conversations.
Do both parents need to take part?
No. Most people start on their own. Coaching focuses on what you can do, whatever the other parent decides.
What if there are safety concerns?
Safety comes first. If there is abuse, threats or fear in the relationship, ordinary co-parenting advice may not fit. We will talk with you about what support is appropriate and help you connect with other services if needed.
Are sessions in person or online?
Both. Sessions are 50 minutes, in person at our Burlington office or online by secure video or phone anywhere in Ontario.
Related reading
Take the first step
You do not need to have everything figured out. A free 15-minute consultation is a chance to talk about where things stand and whether coaching fits what you need.
Safety disclaimer
This page provides general information only. It is not legal advice, a diagnosis, an assessment, or a substitute for individual care. If you are in immediate danger or experiencing an emergency, call 911 or go to your nearest emergency department. If you are in crisis or having thoughts of suicide, call or text 9-8-8, available 24/7 across Canada. Booking requests and messages to our office are not emergency services. You do not need to manage an emergency on your own.
